FEMIVOICE: 5 REASONS WHY YOUR MAN WILL ALWAYS CHEAT ON YOU
Have you ever felt like your man does not deserve you yet he keeps on adding insult upon injury by cheating on you with the cheapest prostitutes and downtrodden side chicks in town or do you have a neighbour in your locale who has got a Kim Kardashian or Vera Sidika for a wife but he just cannot simply zip his trousers?
Here are 5 good reasons why he will always cheat despite marrying the perfect bride
1. The mystery surrounding the “forbidden fruit”
Men are the greatest explorers of all time. Their exploration dates back to Vasco Da Gama to Bartolomeu Dias. It is very rare to hear women who became the greatest explorers in the world.
Therefore, men will always be men. Yes, they would like to explore the mystery behind the forbidden fruit.
Believe it or not, they would like to unravel the riddle behind this fruit, which makes it a no go zone and why can’t they have a taste of it.
Therefore, calm your nerves, there is no point of shedding tears for him, let him explore the much he can. Once he is done exploring, he will sit back and reminisce over it with utmost remorse.
2. “Put a number on her”
Another reason as to why men always cheat is simply because they would like to swell or better burst with the pride of having put a number on several girls.
There is nothing that gives a man pride as to have put a number on at least ten ladies in a month. They would like to make an endless list of the numerous women whom they have “gone through” (directly translated- kupitia) so that they can brag to their cohorts over coffee later in the evening about how nice it feels to deflower as many girls as possible.
3. “Different flavours different tastes”
There is another myth surrounding promiscuity or unfaithfulness. It is the myth of different women having different flavours and tastes.
Since men always like to practically taste the different flavours, they are likely to sleep with as many women as they can to confirm whether this particular myth is true or not.
4. “Let men be men”
This is a common phrase that you will always hear from your friends or older women come, mentors.
They will always give you all sorts of explanations to prove that men or boys are very different from women and girls.
Do not try to cage him, let him go out and have fun with his friends. Let him enjoy his personal space. Let him go out, gossip about women, drink beer over sizzling nyama choma and watch football so that he can “discover the world of men.”
The outcomes of “discovering the world of men” are a clandestine and/ or a bastard.
5. “She is just a friend”
Gal, never fall for this bullshit. No man can keep a female friend, foot “light” bills such as snacks for her without expecting something in return.
This is like putting Tom and Jerry in the same cage. Jerry will run but eventually, Tom will catch up with her and devour her.